I’m very much enjoying writing the blog, but I also still hang out at Talk About Marriage. Here’s a few random splatters of what I’ve said over there recently. No particular plan, just letting fly…
How can I get my wife less innocent?
You have to just get over the idea that she is going to initiate sex with you. Most women, even very high sex drive women, rarely come out and directly ask for sex or make physical moves to get it started. Usually they give only small signals of interest… playing their hair, eye contact, “so what would you like to do”, smiling at you then breaking eye contact and looking down, touching herself on the neck etc. You’re just meant to realize she is interested. If she ever makes a physical move on you, you absolutely must follow through on that. Women take sexual rejection very personally.
Am I Having An Affair?
…if your husband is remotely paying attention to you – he knows something is going on. He likely has no clue how to stop you from going after this other guy. The whole thing of having a personal trainer in the first place is probably making your husband very nervous. Women fall for personal trainers like men fall for strippers.
Help: My husband changed all his passwords and took his sum of money from our joint account.
“I moved out to another country due to a job posting. We have been living physically separate for 23 months now. He visits 3-4 times a year. We visited him once. Our child is with me.”
If you really expect a relationship with a healthy man to continue when he gets less Conjugal Visits than a medium secruity prison inmate, you are seriously deluded. Lets face it. You left him.
If my wife ever became pregnant to someone else, I believe I would end it instantly as well. So I certainly don’t disagree with that. It’s disappointing that she was so stupid. It’s one thing to have an affair… I understand the temptations there, but she getting pregnant was just frakking stupid. I’m not sure I’d be divorcing for the affair itself, but I just personally couldn’t stay married to such a dumbass.
How important is head to a man?
It’s not BJ = Respect
Wife Turned On Sexually By Husband = The Little Things Stay Little
Wife Not Turned On Sexually By Husband = WHY CAN’T YOU LOAD THE FRAKKING DISHWASHER LIKE I TOLD YOU TO THE PLATES GO HERE AND RINSE THEM OFF BEFORE YOU PUT THEM IN THE CUPS GO HERE YOU IDIOT I TELL YOU AND I TELL YOU I AM SO SICK OF CLEANING UP AFTER YOUR SHIT ALL DAY LONG AND YOU NEVER DO ANYTHING RIGHT TO HELP ME GET AWAY FROM THE WASHING MACHINE AND LET ME DO IT BECAUSE YOU ARE INCAPABLE OF ANYTHING AND I CANNOT GET ANYTHING I WANT DONE AROUND HERE AND DINNER IS RUINED BECAUSE OF YOU AND I HOPE YOU ARE HAPPY!
Then the husband comes on here and asks why his wife doesn’t respect him and he isn’t getting enough sex.