All marriages have rough spots where things aren’t working as well as they could. For the most part this is pretty normal to have ups and downs. It’s also not usual to talk about things with an outside person to gain perspective on what’s going on in the relationship.
However in the downs be careful about who you confide in about your marriage. If you share things with a female friend, that can turn into a bridge towards an emotional entanglement that diverts energy away from the marriage. Odds are you’re not actually going to share this stuff with an unattractive female friend that you have no passing interest in, right…
…yeah I thought so.
Repeat after me… “I never meant for this to happen, we just started talking to..