Married Man Sex Life
How to have the marriage you thought you were going to have. By which I mean doing it like rabbits.
"Fix broken things. Complete tasks. Finish something."
This goes both ways. My lady and I have both reflected on the last year and realized we haven't made nearly as much personal progress as wanted to. It's hard to talk about between us, it's a bit embarrassing and insecure for us to admit this to each other, it feels like admitting weakness. I like to do lots of personal projects and self-improvement tasks (that's why I'm here) and not getting those done saps my self-worth.
Plus, you know, a skilled man about the house? That's always attractive.
With the usual caveat that succumbing to an on-command "honey-do" list is betatizing.
If you create the list though, and actually complete the chores… that's pretty good.
*nods* yep. Besides, you both live there so it shouldn't be a "honey-do" list, it should just be on the general list of things to do. I'm more than happy to give such things a go myself (got my own toolbox, it's not even pink), but for some reason the sight of me with any type of power tool seems to galvanise my OH into action.
But again, a man working with his hands – don't know any woman that doesn't appreciate that.
Tale of two marriages on the rocks: First guy followed the "How to save your Marriage" by Dr. Puss E. Wuss. Other guy, me, used "Game" by experts like Roissey and Athol, etc. Nearly two years later, one failed marriage and one hot HOT marriage. You can guess….
So the 'hood wives and the x-wife are talking about the new X's boy friends. Now i learned this the hard way, but I confirm that these women who say they want the nice guy, blah blah blah, really get excited about whether the guy is hot or not.
Lesson in all this: Looks matter a lot to women. Get in shape and shape up. Be the one the 'hood wives dream about, not the ones they laugh about. Take the Red pill. Don't fool yourself any longer…..
What's a Red pill??
Red Pill is a reference to The Matrix."This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill – the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill – you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes."
YES! I got off my duff and did a few things this weekend (even tho I was sick) and it does feel awesome and energizing to get stuff done. Also, I've got a giant pan of Sheppard's Pie to eat all week =D
Demonspawn – it doesn't even matter what you complete either, just anything works like this.
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Brian C. Rideout
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