Most wives have something they are really good at doing and you like whatever that thing is she does. So ask for it once in a while.
Usually that special thing is making some sort of food. Lets face it, most of us are not chefs and we turn out quite edible food but on average it’s all quite mundane. But usually she will have a small handful of things that she’s really really good at making, but she only makes them for special occasions.