Sexy Move: Do Something… Anything

When affairs are uncovered, the cheated on spouse usually finds hundreds or even thousands of text messages, instant messages, emails and calls between the lovers. Many of those messages are sexy, dirty or even filthy. Women clearly enjoy this sort of thing with a man they are interested in.
You don’t have to be as obsessive about it as dopamine addled teenagers, but why not try it out and see where it goes. Just consider that she has inner slut needs that you aren’t meeting enough and try and meet them.
Start simple. Text her “what color panties are you wearing?”
Then just wait and see what happens. Sometimes things take on a life of their own. I had a response from a reader who tried just that simple move and he had a fun text exchange with her. The next day she unprompted texted him panty color… the day after that he came home to her naked and waiting for him.
Sometimes the problem isn’t that she has a low sex drive, but instead she’s just waiting to have you instigate something she can respond to. Women more typically have a responsive sex drive, where men have an active one. Or put another way, she simply wants to see you bust a move and do something. It probably doesn’t even matter what you do, just do something. Anything.
Or you could do nothing in particular to stir things up or play with her inner slut. You could also leave your keys swinging in the ignition of your truck. Just don’t complain if someone turns her on and takes off with her though.


  1. True words. Be pro-active and take the sexual initiative. The largest beta hurdle I see here is guys feeling like they should apologize for their sexual appetite and stifling their sexual expression. Tell her the random nasty thoughts that go through your head, its fun.

  2. The fact that you were able to think, "I'm going to post that Britney Spears video," does not make me excited for my girls teen years. On the other hand, she is more interesting to watch that members of the Fresh Beat Band.

  3. Athol Kay says:

    Been on a Britney kick in the car recently lol.

  4. Anonymous says:

    What do you do if she doesn't respond? Act unaffected or call her out on it?

  5. Athol Kay says:

    Act unaffected.

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