When affairs are uncovered, the cheated on spouse usually finds hundreds or even thousands of text messages, instant messages, emails and calls between the lovers. Many of those messages are sexy, dirty or even filthy. Women clearly enjoy this sort of thing with a man they are interested in.
You don’t have to be as obsessive about it as dopamine addled teenagers, but why not try it out and see where it goes. Just consider that she has inner slut needs that you aren’t meeting enough and try and meet them.
Start simple. Text her “what color panties are you wearing?”
Then just wait and see what happens. Sometimes things take on a life of their own. I had a response from a reader who tried just that simple move and he had a fun text exchange with her. The next day she unprompted texted him panty color… the day after that he came home to her naked and waiting for him.
Sometimes the problem isn’t that she has a low sex drive, but instead she’s just waiting to have you instigate something she can respond to. Women more typically have a responsive sex drive, where men have an active one. Or put another way, she simply wants to see you bust a move and do something. It probably doesn’t even matter what you do, just do something. Anything.
Or you could do nothing in particular to stir things up or play with her inner slut. You could also leave your keys swinging in the ignition of your truck. Just don’t complain if someone turns her on and takes off with her though.