Girl Game: Post-Coital Cuddling

After having sex, you snuggling into him and laying your head on his shoulder will frame him as strong, comforting and powerful. It’s like you’re telling him you feel he’s got the Alpha Male thing down.

Making him feel more Alpha, is going to make him act more Alpha. You might like that.

There’s often a little bit of a chicken and the egg thing happening here for Jennifer and myself. It’s usually after the rougher Alpha poundings that she snuggles into me like this. Usually I tease her just a little for it too.

Me: “Well somebody liked that didn’t she.”

Jennifer: “Shut up.”  (Snuggles closer.)

I do utterly adore this position though.

Though the truth is quite often I cuddle up to her after sex… and wake up three to ten minutes later. Just out like a light as I get that hormonal surge after orgasm. Once I wake back up we disengage and then I go back to sleep again. It’s actually very difficult for me to fall asleep without having sex. I just lie there… awake.

Jennifer doesn’t care of course, she just figures she’s topping off the mind control conditioning for another day by having me shoot myself full of vasopressin again. Plus it makes me a terrible candidate for having an affair…

Homewrecking Bitch: “OMG, my husband is coming! Hide!”

Me: (Snores heavily while drooling into pillow)
Other Husband: “WHAT THE HELL IS THIS?!? GET OUT OF BED!!!”

Me: (groggily) “Just five more minutes mom, I promise I’ll get up.”

See why I avoid that nonsense?

So anyway…. Cuddle up to him in bed after doing it was the point. Also if you do that, all the post-sex drippage ends up on his side of the bed.