From Thunder one of my regular commenters…
I thought you’d be interested in hearing some reader game success stories. And besides, we’re sick and tired of hearing about you and Super J.
Hope its not too graphic…
Background: After a week of no-sex period time, we had some great sexy-time the previous night. The next night, I’m still feeling my oats….she meanwhile, had told me a few times how tired she was from the days activities and how she can’t wait to get off her feet and into bed. That night in bed together while watching some corny chick flick “Hitch”….
Me: “Hey baby, I know how tired you are so I’m not gonna go all in for sex tonight, I’ll just take a handjob.”
Her: some whining routine about being tired, we just had sex the previous night, she always needs to be “on”, etc…
Me: Slapping that shit down calmly, taking it all in stride, telling her the default between us should be some form of intimacy every night, etc…and going back to watching the movie, unaffected. [In the past, i would have sulked, went passive-aggressive, etc…]
Her (Smiling):“Oh, I’m just teasing you about having to be “on”, you know I like to play with you…” Starts to get cozy with me.
Me: Lightly slap her ass while watching movie. Not really expecting anything but not affected anyway. Getting bored of movie planning on going to sleep shortly. Lightly stroking her back.
Her: 5 minutes later. Out of the blue. “Let’s just have some naked cozy time. Don’t get your hopes up.” She strips completely naked and starts cozying up against me.
Me: I am pretty surprised here but take it in stride. Just continue watching movie stroking her back.
Her: starts cozying into me more, kisses me during some commercials.
Me: stroking her full body now, breasts, ass, etc…but not making any real move yet. But knowing that it is game on. in every sense of the word.
Her: kisses me again during next commercial break. getting playful.
Me: I take off my clothes. hey, it is naked cozy time after all.
Me: now, starting to turn it up a notch making my move…
Her: Responding with some shit as to not wanting to miss the movie that we are watching…
Me: caught off guard, roll off, rambling something about her priorities
Me: catching my composure again within a few seconds: “I’m tired baby, I need to get to sleep.” Roll on top of her start making out. touching ALL over.
Her: cooing, grabbing me in closer, sticking her tongue down my throat, stroking my penis, telling me she was joking about watching the move instead of this….
Post sex cozying – while watching end of movie…
Her: “So what was it about me that made you fall in love with me, be crazy about me, etc…blah blah blah”–>context: again, we are watching this gushy chick flick so it seemed to trigger this thought process in her. or maybe it was just her wanting to follow up sex with another dose of my manhood via shit testing…
Me: Running Game – “Your boobs”
Her: Laughing. “No Really”
Me: Running Game – “Your legs”
Her: laughing again, but now acting insulted.
Me: I can’t tell if she is truly insulted or just feigning it. Women are so damn hard to read. Even mine after 15 years of marriage. Even right after sex.
Me: Running Athol MMSL Game – I turn towards her, put my hand on the back of her neck, pull her towards me, roll on top of her, kiss her deeply and tell her I am crazy about her and love her with all my heart.
Her: Cooing and cozying deeply into me while I drift off to sleep.
Me: Big smile next morning.
Athol: Some corny chick flick? Hitch is classic! I actually adapted a little from it for the Ten Second Kiss routine!
I also love that after all the Alpha framing and cocky and funny routine, that you unleash the sappy and score with it. Women love, love, love the sappy romantic fluff… as long as you have a good enough Alpha framework to drape it on.
Plus I love that Jennifer has earned her superhero handle nickname. “Marriedman and Super J” might just stick.