Treat A Whore Like A Lady And A Lady Like A Whore

A reader sends me an email…
Interesting quote from Monroe on her husband. Can you spot the take-home message?…
“I was surprised to be so crazy about Joe [DiMaggio]. I expected a flashy New York sports type, and instead I met this reserved guy who didn’t make a pass at me right away! He treated me like something special. Joe is a very decent man, and he makes other people feel decent too.”
Athol: Immediately I thought of the old line advising to “Treat a whore like a lady and a lady like a whore.”
Converting it into MMSLspeak, women have the whole Alpha Beta Trait thing happening with them too. What’s Beta for men and women are much the same, but the Alpha Traits are primarily based on dominance and power for men, and beauty and being sexually provocative in women. Most of us tend toward being better in one or the other of Alpha and Beta Traits.
So a “whore” would be a higher Alpha and lower Beta mix woman. So she’s going to be seeking a way to get more Beta into her life.
A “lady” would be a lower Alpha and higher Beta mix woman. So she’s going to be seeking a way to get more Alpha into her life.
Though do remember that it’s all about a balance. Once she gets a big dose of what she’s looking for right now, she’ll return to baseline and start looking for her usual mix of Alpha and Beta. So you do have to maintain the balance, you can’t just throw Beta at a “whore” endlessly and expect great results forever.
The point is that for an opening move though, doing the exact opposite of what every other guy has done up until now, is going to get her positive attention. There are plenty of “ladies” simply craving flirtation and direct sexual interest in them. There are plenty of “whores” dying inside to not be pump and dumped anymore.
Though the saying that you “Can’t make a ho’ a housewife” also springs to mind. So be advised on that account. But you can certainly make a housewife act like a ho’… all that takes is privacy, passion and power…
…or booze.
Jennifer: Be advised that the word “whore” is used for illustrative purposes only. Do NOT use this with your female interest.
Athol: Awwwwwwww…….

Comments

  1. Love that song.

    PUAs tell us that plenty of culturally-Christian girls are there for taking, sexually speaking. One explanation for this is that they spend their daylight hours in "decent" society acting decent, and so are highly susceptible rakish guy putting his rougish charms on her – somebody showing her he will treat her like the sexual being she is and not simply as a pedestalized goddess to be wooed. I'm not making an ethical judgment about it either way, just noting that Athol's principle is probably at work there.

  2. I am currently in a relationship with a predominately Alpha female. I have more Beta leanings but I've ramped up my Alpha over the past couple of years and believe I'm much more balanced.

    What I am finding with her is that I need to actually out Alpha her so that she is in a more submissive Beta frame. Then, once she is there and feeling more vulnerable, then I can provide the Beta comfort she is also seeking.

    She has said things to me like, "We are gonna clash because we are both strong Alpha's." (in the beginning) Or more recently, "I love that you can be such an asshole and be so sweet at the same time. It's like I get the best of both worlds" Seriously, her words not mine!

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