Deciduous: This morning we were involved in husband and wife activities…
At the beginning, she played a little game she has done in the past a few times.
“What if I don’t let you?”
In the past, I usually shrugged that off, but not in a dominant way, usually in a playful manner, and it has never resulted in no happyfuntime.
I would usually say something along the lines of “I have never had an unsatisfied customer” or “I prefer willing participants”.
This time I said, in a rather growly way whilst burying her head in my quite well developed pecs…
“Then I’m just gonna take what I want”
At this point, I almost couldn’t believe that came out of my mouth. I didn’t stop, but my mind was racing…wow, did I just do that?
Her response FLOORED me.
“I think I would like that. A LOT”
Holy crap. This manosphere stuff isn’t 50% bullshit after all.
Maybe only 25%.
The fact that she wants the OLD me, the guy that had her as #2 in a soft harem 13 years ago, rather than the guy I figured made more sense with 2 young kids…
Athol: As long as you have all the basic structural attraction pieces in place – a job, basic health, reasonable fitness, no critical emotional incidents screwing everything up… sometimes all that’s left to do is make a dominant move.
If you try it and she says “no”, well you weren’t going to get laid anyway.
If you try it and she says “yes”, or at least doesn’t say “no” and makes some kind of vaguely positive response… then you go for it.
Takes a couple minutes to see how it works. If you’ve been doing everything else and getting minimal sexual response from her, you may as well try something new.
You won’t know until you try.