For some strange reason there’s a distinct lack of cheating whores wanting to be friends with Jennifer….
…let me explain.
I now know of this situation happening with some degree of variance in four different sets of couples…
Anna and Alex are married. Brad and Brenda are married.
Anna tell tells Alex that Brenda is having an affair and cheating on Brad.
Alex is somewhat friends with Brad, but Anna swears him to secrecy. Alex complies and doesn’t tell Brad. Besides, how do you tell someone that they are being cheated on. So awkward.
Anna starts to get snippy with Alex over little stuff.
Anna starts telling Alex how annoyed she is with Brenda and how she’s changing and doesn’t like it.
Anna gets annoyed with Alex over lots of different things.
Anna tells Alex that Brenda is going balls deep with her OM.
Anna invites Brenda and Brad over. Alex extremely uncomfortable making small talk with Brad because he he knows what Brenda is up to. Alex says nothing.
Anna tells Alex how unhappy she is in the marriage and is considering moving out to figure herself out.
Alex begs Anna to stay, asks for counseling et al.
Magically the counselor suggests a separation.
Alex helps Anna find an apartment.
Alex waits patiently for Anna to find herself.
Anna finds herself in a variety of sexual positions with different men.
Alex cries alone in the dark and masturbates to the memory of Anna.
And so on and so on and so on…
Maybe it’s just me… but if I ever tell someone to blow the lid open on someone else’s affair, it’s also to protect them as much as anything. When your spouse throws that in front of you, your passive acceptance can be interpreted as weakness. If you’re weak to awkward… you’re weak to a great many things.
So maybe it’s my big mouth that doesn’t give a shit where the chips fall, that creates a whore avoidance field around Jennifer. Though it’s not like she attracts the Girl’s Night Out crowd in the first place.
And yes of course the cheater will be mad when you spill it. Fuck ’em. They shouldn’t be whores and douchebags if you don’t want that coming around and hitting them in the ass. If they couldn’t shut their mouth or be discreet, they’re stupid, stupid, stupid.
And yes of course the cheated on person may not like you for telling them. Oh well, not like you could continue the friendship as it was, knowing they are being duped and always having to talk around the elephant in the womb.
And yes of course your partner will be mad when you spill it. Good. They won’t have any illusions what you’ll do if they ever cheat. Give them the heads up first of course. Real simple. “I can never let you think I won’t take strong action about cheating. If you didn’t want me to do something, you should never have told me.” They may not like it, but they will respect it.
Divorce and cheating comes in waves, you gotta stop it at the source.
Keep reading. Divorce is contagious, stop it at the sniffles.