The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife – Complete Video Series

We’ve added a “box set” of the videos series on Vimeo, so here’s the all purpose update.

 

Complete Series

The complete set is here and is $99.99. So all 5 parts / 26 episodes. Which considering there’s twenty hours of video, a rather competitive price.

There is a 20% off discount code  JULYSALE  which as you may guess expires at the end of July.

 

Individual Parts

You can still get the individual parts of the series for $29.99 each.

The $10 “Buy All” discount code  MARRIEDGUY   for the individual parts also ends at the end of July.

 

 

Vimeo Hosting

Vimeo is the retailer and hosting the videos.

You will need to have a Vimeo membership to buy (or rent) the videos. Vimeo membership is free and signing up is a snap.

The Vimeo FAQ for buying is at https://vimeo.com/help/faq/watching-videos/vimeo-on-demand-purchases.

 

Please Leave a Comment on the Vimeo Pages

As a final request, please leave comments on the Vimeo sales pages themselves. There’s been some very positive comments about the videos on the forum, but they would be a huge benefit if you can also say something on the Vimeo sales page.

 

And thank you to everyone who has been so supportive as we’ve pushed this project ahead.

 

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part Five is Live!

And with great relief Part Five is finally done. The entire series is 20 Hours and 22 minutes long. I’m blown away at how much content there is in there. I had no idea it would turn into such an epic thing.

 

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part Five is now done!

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part ONE

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part TWO.

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part THREE.

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part FOUR.

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part FIVE.

 

$10 Off Code

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes in Part One.
The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all six episodes in Part Two. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes in Part Three. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes in Part Four. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes in Part Five. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

 

$0.99 Rental for Episode One of Part One

Something else to note is that the rental is just $0.99 on Episode One of Part One.

 

 

Free Stuff

There’s a couple of extra features you can watch for free on the Vimeo page of Part One. A 16 minute video about the progression of Primer –> MAP Book –> Married Guy’s Guide to Wife. There’s also a 7 minute preview of the entire series.

 

 

Vimeo hosting

Vimeo is the retailer and hosting the videos.

You will need to have a Vimeo membership to buy (or rent) the videos. Vimeo membership is free and signing up is a snap.

The Vimeo FAQ for buying is at https://vimeo.com/help/faq/watching-videos/vimeo-on-demand-purchases

 

That’s about it, thanks in advance to everyone who buys and has supported us along the way.

 

 

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part Four is now done!

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part Four is now done!

 

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part ONE.

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part TWO.

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part THREE.

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part FOUR.

 

$10 Off Code

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes in Part One.
The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all six episodes in Part Two. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes in Part Three. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes in Part Four. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

 

$0.99 Rental for Episode One of Part One

Something else to note is that the rental is just $0.99 on Episode One of Part One.

 

Free Stuff

There’s a couple of extra features you can watch for free on the Vimeo page of Part One. A 16 minute video about the progression of Primer –> MAP Book –> Married Guy’s Guide to Wife. There’s also a 7 minute preview of the entire series.

 

Vimeo hosting

Vimeo is the retailer and hosting the videos.

You will need to have a Vimeo membership to buy (or rent) the videos. Vimeo membership is free and signing up is a snap.

The Vimeo FAQ for buying is at https://vimeo.com/help/faq/watching-videos/vimeo-on-demand-purchases

 

That’s about it, thanks in advance to everyone who buys and has supported us along the way.

…and now we get started on Part Five!

 

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part Three is now done!

It’s always a challenge to commit to a big project and we’re now at 60% complete on the video piece of the series and it feels great.

There was a lot in here that I really liked as content. The leadership stuff coming after learning the basics in Part One and the Relationship Momentum of Part Two just feels right.

I’m slightly behind my hoped for schedule, but we’re still moving ahead with everything. Part Four and Five will be finished in May no problem, and we’ll have a giant complete set out shortly after that. Then we start on the books and audio books. We are the busy.

Anyway…

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part ONE.
The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part TWO.
The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part THREE.

 

$10 Off Code

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes in Part One. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all six episodes in Part Two. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes in Part Three. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There’s an essentially unlimited number of the $10 discount MARRIEDGUY codes. Please do spread that around as much as you like.

 

$0.99 Rental for Episode One

Something else to note is that the rental is just $0.99 on Episode One.

 

Free Stuff

There’s a couple of extra features you can watch for free on the Vimeo page of Part One. A 16 minute video about the progression of Primer –> MAP Book –> Married Guy’s Guide to Wife. There’s also a 7 minute preview of the entire series.

 

Vimeo hosting

Vimeo is the retailer and hosting the videos.

You will need to have a Vimeo membership to buy (or rent) the videos. Vimeo membership is free and signing up is a snap.

The Vimeo FAQ for buying is at https://vimeo.com/help/faq/watching-videos/vimeo-on-demand-purchases

 

That’s about it, thanks in advance to everyone who buys and has supported us along the way.

…and now we get started on Part Four!

 

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife 3 — Being the Strong Man She Wants to Follow – Trailer from Athol Kay on Vimeo.

Reviews of Part One of The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife

1 Part One NewWhat people on the forum said about Part One of the Married Guy’s Guide to Wife.

@Reborn – I just watched it. Awesome!

@FrustratedMan – This series makes the map books make so much more sense.

@BourneAgain – It’s been less than a week since I started listening to the audio from Part 1 in the (almost) daily commute in my work van…..and I swear as a result I’ve already started fundamentally changing my interactions with my wife. Awesome stuff. Thank you.

@Husband2point1 – I dunno about anyone else, but that Chain of Seduction, including the explanation of the iterative nature of that process was especially helpful too. The idea that she’s passively iteratively scanning me across all six categories is insightful.

@AlphaZulu – I just bought the first series and started watching. Very straightforward and easy to understand. (Where were you when I was 16 ?!?)
I’m really looking forward to the segments coming in the next few months. The Primer got me through all the basics and the topics of the future videos are more in line with what I need to work on now. Consider me pre-sold!

@ctruppi – Found your site recently and have read your books and now watched the 1st 3 vids. Great job!

@GiveMePeace – Great Job on the video series! I rented the first few so far and even though I am already familiar with your work, it is a nice tune up. The Seduction Chain- really brilliant how different aspects can be paired together which makes it easier to tackle. I love your work and will support at every step of the way as you continue to grow.

@AlphaBelle – I feel like I hear something new in every episode. Even after more than a year of coaching and being on the forum since 2012, there is SO MUCH in these videos that hits me like a lightbulb moment.

I love that people can see what it’s like to be in coaching, too. Proof that all geniuses are not boring and/or intimidating.

@Crashaxe – I love the videos!!

@HildaCorners – I keep getting new epiphanies … each time I read/watch Athol’s work I understand relationships more and more. I originally came to MMSL trying to understand why my previous 127* marriages went wrong. My first 15 minutes on the site were like seeing the dawn breaking with a chorus of angels. Everything made sense … the videos had the same effect. I can’t wait for the rest of the series.

 

Jump to the On Demand page for Part One!

 

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part Two is Live

2 Part Two NewWoo-hoo for Part Two!

Part Two is all about creating positive relationship momentum as quickly as possible, to get your relationship to where you want it to be as fast as it can.

 

Six episodes running for a total of 3 hours 22 minutes.

Episode 1: Introduction to Relationship Momentum

Episode 2 : +1 to Attraction

Episode 3: +1 to Relationship Comfort

Episode 4: The Earth-Moon Energy Dynamic

Episode 5: Initiations and Probable Sex

Episode 6: Positive Relationship Momentum

 

Both Part One and Two are now available, you can jump to them here…

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part ONE.
The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part TWO.

 

$10 Off Code

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes in Part One.
The code is MARRIEDGUY.

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all six episodes in Part Two. The code is MARRIEDGUY.

 

$0.99 Rental for Episode One

Something else to note is that the rental is just $0.99 on Episode One

 

Free Stuff

There’s a couple of extra features you can watch for free on the Vimeo page of Part One. A 16 minute video about the progression of Primer –> MAP Book –> Married Guy’s Guide to Wife. There’s also a 7 minute preview of the entire series.

 

Vimeo hosting

Vimeo is the retailer and hosting the videos.

You will need to have a Vimeo membership to buy (or rent) the videos. Vimeo membership is free and signing up is a snap.

The Vimeo FAQ for buying is at https://vimeo.com/help/faq/watching-videos/vimeo-on-demand-purchases

 

That’s about it, thanks in advance to everyone who buys and has supported us along the way.

…and we get to work on Part Three… almost right away. Stay tuned.

 

Married Guy’s Guide to Wife 2 – Creating Positive Relationship Momentum – Trailer from Athol Kay

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part One is Live!

1 Part One NewThe Married Guy’s Guide to Wife Part One is done!

I know it’s been a long time coming, but we’re finally on our way with just over four full hours of video spread over five episodes. It covers the basics of attraction, relationship comfort, initiations, and outcome independence.

If you’re an old hand from reading my work, you’re obviously going to know some of the basics I cover in Part One. Just remember it’s intended as the starting point for guys with zero exposure to what I talk about.

That being said, if you watch it, you’ll start picking up some nuances that haven’t been there before. It’s about two parts Primer, one part MAP book, and two parts everything I’ve learned and polished from nearly two years of one on one coaching guys to relationship success.

I’m most excited about The Six Link Chain of Seduction model. It makes everything more coherent and practical.

 

Where can I buy it?

You can see the video page here.

 

$10 Off Code

There is currently a $10 off code for buying all five episodes.
The code is MARRIEDGUY

 

$0.99 Rental for Episode One

Something else to note is that the rental is just $0.99 on Episode One

 

Free Stuff

There’s a couple of extra features you can watch for free on the Vimeo page. A 16 minute video about the progression of Primer –> MAP Book –> Married Guy’s Guide to Wife. There’s also a 7 minute preview of the entire series.

 

The Trailer

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife 1 — The Truth About What Really Attracts Women – Trailer from Athol Kay on Vimeo.

 

Vimeo hosting

Vimeo is the retailer and hosting the videos.

You will need to have a Vimeo membership to buy (or rent) the videos. Vimeo membership is free and signing up is a snap.

The Vimeo FAQ for buying is at https://vimeo.com/help/faq/watching-videos/vimeo-on-demand-purchases

 

That’s about it, thanks in advance to everyone who buys and has supported us along the way.

…and we get to work on Part Two in a couple of days. Stay tuned.

Testimonials – Hear what our clients and readers say about us.

CA: Try just one call with Athol, and I can just about guarantee you that you will think he is damn near psychic.

He is incredibly easy to talk to, and his ability to identify things and intuit what is happening in yourself and your relationship that you would never pick up on yourself is staggering. I was gobsmacked at what he could cold read from my situation.

His time and knowledge is easily worth at least 10X what he charges.

If the time comes that I want counseling for any reason in the future, I will use Athol. One one hour session with him was far more effective than more than 20 counselor visits for me in trying to assess my marriage and myself and identify the true problems.

IM: The benefit I got from Athol’s coaching was not creating a to-do list and checking in every week on the to-do list. The benefit that I got from Athol was from his experience and intuition. Athol helped me see what is keeping me from meeting my potential socially and professionally and develop a strategy to remove these barriers. As with everything it takes practice and I am a work in progress. I am in a better place now, it does not matter if my relationship succeeds or fails I am confident that I will be happy either way because I have the sense that I am knocking down the barriers that are holding me back. I am very excited about the future.

MN: Coaching with Athol changed my life. I’d stalled on my master’s thesis and was miserably frustrated with my wife and myself. What Athol did was untangle a lot of day to day frustrations and unfinished work in both my house, day job and thesis. I got useful direction on what to focus on. I didn’t just get coached, I also felt mentored, which made a huge difference. Now I have a completed thesis and a better marriage.

N: Athol’s book has put my marriage into perspective. I no longer feel as if I have been taken hostage by my wife. I have been given a box of tools that give me the skills to approach the problem of not getting what I want in a positive and constructive manner. It also gives me the courage to acknowledge if I should continue or not. No more panic.

JQ: Athol, I think your books have a NYT Best Seller potential. Universal theme, easy to follow advice.

JH: Athol, I just wanted to let you know I have had phenomenal results taking your subtle suggestions… It is almost comical how well a few subtle changes are working. She is coming up to me in the middle of the day and showing affection. Complementing the way I look. These are a little out of the ordinary for the previous months. I am very pleased. She is extremely happy.

MF: You had said to me last summer that the energy blockage was all the way back there, with the failure to complete a degree. You could not have been more accurate. Within a week of learning his final grade he replaced the leaky faucet, made repairs in the bathroom, purged his wardrobe, wrote letters and on and on. It was amazing. When he finished a switch flipped and he’s not only soared on his own, but is actively moving into a leadership position without our relationship.

SM: Hi Athol, thanks for the summary! The coaching session was superb. I just finished reading the Primer and now I’m starting the MAP book. Gosh, I should have read these books 5 years ago.

SA: Do coaching if at all possible. Puts your MAP on steroids!

PT: Literally within the first 15 minutes of the first call Athol was able to point something out to me I had not considered an issue. He also gave us a tool to use that has been very effective at getting our marriage back on track.

SA: So far this whole MAP process has been really positive for me and it really has brought into focus areas that I need to work on. I know this whole experience will be well worth it for my marriage, my family, and most importantly myself. I am really looking forward to starting my 12-Week coaching program!

MS: It is my highest compliment to Athol Kay to say that coaching with him averted the divorce that appeared inevitable on the horizon. Out marriage has improved markedly since the low-point in Fall 2013, and continues to progress on a upward trajectory.

LL: Athol gives me a very clear action plan and very situation specific advice. As an aside, Athol has miraculous language translation gift and can understand woman brain as much as a woman. Men, and women, if you are confused, call Athol and he will set you straight. Athol doesn’t hold punches, but what everyone needs is to be told the truth. It’s the only way you can actually change what’s wrong.

JB: We made the move, we are in the new house, and we had sex in the hot tub. Things between us in our marriage are really good. I am am fairly sure that without the resource of MMSL and the coaching with Athol Kay we would not be in this place.

MA: My book is out. I’m a published author. Little happy dance. A huge thanks to Athol Kay, I doubt lazy me would have had enough confidence and tenacity to publish had you not encouraged me.

PI: Athol is really a wonder worker. Right now I’m dealing with a FIL who’s been hospitalized for a month with post-surgical delirium, a dying cat, an off the charts PA boss, chronic instability in my employer’s funding, a teething one-year-old and a stubborn preschooler. And that whole wife with no libido thing. After a call with him I feel pretty chill and positive about the future. I’ve said it before: I’m pretty sure he’s a witch.

AV: I’ve been mapping for 18 months or so, and gone from virtually nonexistent (1X year) to 6-8 per month, which is amazing, all by itself. Thanks Athol.

LV: I started my coaching sessions last fall, just wrapping up my 12-Week session last week. The improvements in not just my relationship with my wife but in my LIFE are nothing short of remarkable- because really, that’s what you’re working on with this program, with Athol’s coaching. You’re not trying to fix her, or even the relationship. You’re fixing YOU- and that affects everything you do. Athol’s got a very clear-cut approach to it as well- what are the biggest things you need to work on this week? What will give you the best return on your efforts? Focus on those few things this week, and see whether that focus needs to be shifted next week. More importantly, at least to me, is that he’s looking to give you the tools you need to do the work you need to be doing. His coaching disrupted the slow downward spiral I was on, and showed me how to start climbing again. This was well worth the investment of both money and time- I don’t feel that I need it anymore, but if I did, I’d sign up for another round of coaching in a heartbeat and I would STRONGLY recommend it to anyone who even thinks it might possibly be helpful for them. Do it. You won’t regret it. And you’ll learn how to make your life, yourself, better.

PB: Call. Athol. Now. It is so worth it. He saved my sanity.”

AB: Nowhere, in all the counselors and therapists and pastors we’ve talked to, has anyone given me anything to hold on to that kept me from drowning in hopelessness. You reached out in the coaching sessions and gave me tangible help, something to get up each day and do, that was more than theory and ideals and moralizing.

RH: If you find yourself “stuck” in various facets of your life, consider using the 12-Week MAP as a jump-start. It is a multidisciplinary, tailored approach that is accessible to anyone. As a coach, Athol will hold you accountable each week as you jointly set goals. Having gone through the program, don’t be surprised if you find the “attraction” part of the plan working on people besides your intended target, if you have one. As you follow through with your goals you will slowly gain the conviction that things will work out, thought it may not be in the way you expected. Very highly recommend for people in all sorts of situations.

KM: Athol is very insightful. He has cut through all the details of my complex situation, and analyzed what I need to work on. Sometimes his advice has surprised me. For example, one of my first assignments was to replace doors in my home that had been damaged by my ex-husband. Once the new doors were installed, I realized how those unpleasant reminders of the past had been draining my energy away from building a new life with my new husband. I also appreciate Athol’s tactful honesty. He was frank about how unattractive my “nice girl”/doormat behaviors are to a man…without hurting my feelings.

LI: The book is exactly what I need right now in my life. It has specifically helped me to see ways in which I am the vampire, not just the victim. Humbling, but truth often is.

WE: I think the advantage of the MAP book is that it saves you a whole lot of forum reading. This forum is pretty vast and can be a huge time sink for a newcomer. The book really focuses everything quite well on what matters for a plan of action. Also, I am into bullet points and steps and such, so I liked the quick pace.

SR: I’m exhausted from marathon sex last night!

Books – The old, the new and what’s coming starting summer 2015.

What’s coming for 2015

The exciting news is after the webinar series has been completed, Athol will begin work on transferring the same content into a five part book series. Expect them to be available for sale one at a time, starting around the middle of the year, finishing with part five in the series early 2016.

The Married Guy’s Guide to Wife is designed to be an easy to understand, simple to put into action, step-by-step system of recovering attraction and rebuilding a wife’s interest in her husband. It also correctly stages the order you need to do things, avoiding the common pitfalls that can derailing all your progress.

Summer 2015 perfect 1 Part One New 2 Part Two New 3 Part Three New 4 Part Four New 5 Part Five New


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2013 – The Mindful Attraction Plan

A quantum leap forward in self-improvement, ease of use and practical applications of running your own MAP. Where the Primer was focused on a “Red Pill for Men” approach, The Mindful Attraction Plan knits a smooth synthesis of four years of writing into an approachable book both men and women can use.

“This is the pure, original meaning of the Law of Attraction, far away from fad books like “The Secret”. The Mindful Attraction Plan is a very neat packaging of wisdom from a number of different sources, and that’s exactly what makes it stand out. It’s simple, easy-to-use and more importantly, it just plain works. ” -Brian C Rideout “The Wild Man Project”

Buy The Mindful Attraction Plan on Amazon!


2012 – How to Answer “Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?”

How to Answer, "Do these pants make my ass look fat?" and get laid like tile.

The second book published by Athol Kay, this collection of classic essays highlights some of the best posts written on his blog in 2010 and 2011. Humorous, smart, and easy to read, this book is as much fun as it is educational.

“Once again my brother has mortified his family by writing this crap.” Athol’s little sister.

Buy the Pants book on Amazon!


2011 – The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011

The Primer

The Primer is intended to act as a basic introduction to all the concepts on the MMSL blog in structured approach. The blog is free, but it could take you weeks or even months to get up to speed reading through the first two and a half years of posts. Reading the Primer gets you all caught up today.

“Athol Kay is an eloquent sex God and has most definitely cracked the code on female sexuality.” -Susan Walsh “Hooking Up Smart”

Buy the Married Man Sex Life Primer on Amazon!