What is the Red Pill?

The Blue Pill is the lie. The Blue Pill is the avalanche of marriage and dating advice that’s out there. There’s been books, movies, magazines, TV shows, seminars and sermons telling you how relationships should be. There’s what your parents brought you up to believe, what your friends told you and what she said she wanted to be happy. There’s been over fifty years of professional help from doctors, psychologists, counselors, teachers, ministers and more……and the divorce rate has never been higher. The advice is that bad.The Blue Pill is what women say they want from a man.

You’ve been fed the Blue Pill from birth and you’ve never had a proper chance to win at love because you’ve been told the lie about how the game is played.

The Red Pill is the truth.

I do have one word of warning about all this… you can’t unlearn the truth. Some of it is going to sting.

Once you take the Red Pill you’ll know exactly what women really want from men. Your life will change forever as you see the true nature of how men and women interact and everything will look almost scripted. The good news is that once you know the tune, the dance is easy to do.

So take the Red Pill and you’ll have the truth, you’ll have a plan and you’ll have hope.

“You take the blue pill, the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill, you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes.” – Morpheus

Getting Started

Taking the Red Pill can be a little bit overwhelming at first.  There are over ten key concepts that are markedly different from all the regular marriage advice you have ever heard.  It will take a little time to learn them all, but when you learn them and see how they are all interrelated, you will never see life the same way again.

You can learn about some of the fundamentals here:


Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011The Fast Track

Or you can get it all right now.  The MMSL Primer is the perfect introduction to Red Pill thinking for married men.  It is a structured, organized book that covers all the most important concepts for getting started.  Its very readable and can get you all caught up in a day or two.  Just remember, once you’ve taken the Red Pill, there is no going back.  You can’t unlearn the truth.

“I know kung fu.” – Neo