Body Agenda: It’s very common to think of the “real you” as living inside your body, and your body as some sort of a transportation system for the “real you.” The reality though is that your body has its own agenda that it’s pursuing… it wants to make babies… and your highly intelligent homo sapiens brain is in fact a tool it uses to get that job done. To be sure, we can think logically and make decisions, but we’re not nearly as in control of ourselves as we’d like to think we are. Hormones and neurotransmitters are our bodies’ way of telling us what to do.
Sex Rank: One of the things our body tells us to do, is to constantly evaluate other people for their usefulness in getting the Body Agenda’s goals achieved. Or put more plainly, we all figure out how sexually hot everyone is around us. Because some people are hotter than others, there is a simple ranking system we all use to find suitable sex partners. The hottest people mate with the other hottest people, the mid-range hot people with other mid-range hot people, and so on. It’s best not to over think things, and simply think of everyone being on a 1 to 10 scale of hotness.
Very importantly, whoever has the higher Sex Rank of a couple is the one that has the most control in the relationship – because they can leave and find someone better. The wider apart the Sex Rank is in a couple, the more likely the relationship will fail.